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    Holy Cosmetics and Mother Teresa

    By Alice von Hildebrand

    July 10, 2012

    Available languages: Español, العربية

    • Susie Lloyd

      I know exactly what Dr. Alice means about meeting someone important who takes the time to listen to you and then remembers the details months or years later. That has impressed me twice. Once it was Prince Nicolaus of Liechtenstein. The other time it was Dr. Alice herself. It has a way of teaching you. You try to do likewise.

    • Michael Ssebbaale

      It seems that the world system is slowly driving us away from the true love of Jesus Christ. As Christian believers, we should wake up and remind one another not to be conformed to the standards of this world and in so doing we shall be trying to adopt the life style of Jesus Christ full of healing, energizing power for those burdened by the concerns of daily life.

    • Paul O'Neill

      Her philosophy is spot on! I wish I had taken courses with her. Our school system needs a lover of wisdom and truth. Thank you Madam Von Hildebrand. You are the oxygen for our souls.

    Real women dominate the world – not in terms of power, but of influence. Take, for instance, Mary, the mother of Jesus. She was not only the closest to Christ but at the wedding in Cana it was she who noticed that there wasn't enough wine. This is so womanly, because a man drinks his wine but usually doesn't see whether anything is left for the next one. Mary saw that the wine had run out, her soul was sensitive to the situation. Jesus seems to cut her short and tells her, "My hour has not yet come." But what does she do? She tells the servants "Do whatever he tells you." That was it. So the servants did exactly as Jesus commanded.

    Mary wasn't impressive, not in the way the world thinks. Her glory was an inner one. Just as Christ was the most beautiful of the sons of men (as stated in the Psalms), Mary was the most beautiful of all women; her female body was a combination of physical and spiritual beauty. Today, however, we have made a cult of the body, of outer beauty. I recently got a flyer in the mail from the local pharmacy – fourteen pages long. Eight new cosmetics! If you use that one, it's going to rejuvenate you, and this one for your eyes, with new colors for here and there. All this makeup costs a fortune, and tomorrow you or I may be dead.

    Now if we paid as much attention to our souls as we do our bodies, well then this crazy world of ours might be a lot saner. But people simply have no time for what is important. Just think how long it takes a woman to put on makeup. I mean, there are women who spend up to an hour a day in front of the mirror to work on themselves. Well, I'm not going to say what I think about cosmetics, but I'll tell you one thing, they don't improve anything. When God creates, he knows better. Today the fashion is to have colored nails. The cult of the body is crazy. What about the soul? What about holy cosmetics? We need to spend a lot more time beautifying our soul.

    Mother Teresa smiling

    Today's woman has betrayed her real mission. She wants to look good, but also to be head of state. I always feel uncomfortable when women are just trying to be like men, because they do it so badly. Today we mix it up, and this is why so many men are effeminate, and why so many women try to be like men. I won't comment about the men, but the women do it so badly they make themselves look ridiculous!

    Many years ago, when I was in Oxford, there was a woman smoking a cigar. She believed that by smoking a cigar she could show men she was their equal, that she could be manly. I'm not joking. Well, I don't know about you, but a cigar certainly doesn't make you look any better, believe me! I don't think it can accomplish anything else either. Today is no better – so many women trying to push ahead in the world but getting nowhere, and living emptier lives.

    Now let me tell you about a woman who knew how to live. I met Mother Teresa twice. She was in the United States and I was giving a lecture where she was one of the main speakers and I was one of the small ones at the end. At the time my niece, Chantal, in Belgium was dying. She had an undiagnosed allergy to gluten and so I asked Mother Teresa to pray for her. She normally weighed 125 pounds, but was losing five pounds a week because she was being poisoned by food, and the end of the story was that she died, weighing only 45 pounds.

    The other time I met Mother Teresa was about four months before she herself died. She was again in the United States and when she arrived she immediately called me on the phone, wanting to know how my niece was doing. Don't forget – this woman met and knew thousands of people. And she had only met me accidentally at a conference. Yet months afterwards she calls me up to ask how my niece was doing. That is Christian love. It is also typical of holiness.

    It also gives you an idea of who Mother Teresa was. She was a tiny little thing. She didn't have an impressive personality nor was she very brilliant in her delivery. But I tell you, she feared nothing. She would speak in front of Bill and Hilary Clinton, about the horror of abortion, and people would be clapping, and all the Clintons could do was sit there. She feared nothing. And she feared nothing because she simply wanted to obey God.

    Once when traveling in Rome she was accompanied by a priest who was her chauffeur. To enter the Vatican one needed a special permit. Well, this priest drove her to the Vatican. He was about to let her off when she asked him to come with her. Of course he protested, since he didn't have a permit. She told him not to worry and just stick close to her. Well, she comes to the first guard who naturally asked for his permit, and she said that he didn't have a permit but that she had allowed him to come along with her. So the guard had nothing to say, and they went on in. As they made their way down the corridor, they met another guard, same story, and finally the chauffeur gets all the way to the pope!

    When a woman works for God she cannot be conquered. I mean it! When she is truly working for God she is the strongest force in the world. She may have no authority, but she has something infinitely more important: influence. Authority commands actions. Influence changes your being. That is a woman's mission! Let us not betray it.

    Contributed By Alice von Hildebrand in 2012 Alice von Hildebrand

    Alice von Hildebrand, professor emerita at Hunter College and widow of anti-Nazi German philosopher, Dietrich von Hildebrand, was known for her outspokenness on topics from feminism to liturgy, and for unabashedly witnessing to the joy of the gospel.

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